每一个人成长的过程中都需要接受失去：不复返的童年、无疾而终的初恋、年迈离世的亲人……凝视这些回忆人会是忧伤的，人又在忧伤的同时重建自我，他们是铸造自我的一部分。即使在时间流逝里回忆慢慢变得斑驳、模糊，我们依然会有凝望这些回忆的时刻。

Everyone needs to accept loss as they grow up: a childhood that never returns, a first love that ends without a hitch, a loved one who dies of old age ...... gazing at these memories can be sad, and people rebuild themselves while they are sad, they are part of the founding self. Even if the memories slowly become blurred and blurred in the passage of time, we will still have moments to gaze at these memories.